Hey John, Just an outsiders thought, but maybe you are putting too much pressure on yourself. A date, having a date could be as innocent as finding a new friend & nothing more. You don't have to get sucked into the seriousness of it all. Granted if it's through a dating sight then expectations may be more. Ok, thems my quick thoughts on dating.
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