I have never liked Mondays until the bomb was dropped. The weekends can sure be tough.
Well I made it through the weekend without initiating contact, but on the other hand when XW initiated contact I responded and actually prolonged it a few times. We talked on the phone Friday night for an hour or more. Slipped into R talk as well. Nothing heated, just calm talk. XW really seems to be doing well.
I really need to truely detach, that means not responding to her every txt, call, etc... But XW can sense when I detach and can play the d5 card. For instance having d5 call me to ask me to eat dinner with them.
Keep the faith!! One Goal! Thanks CZ me: 34 XW: 29 D: 5 T: 13 M:9 Dday: Sep 18, 08 joint legal and physical custody of child XW recently told me, she d me, cause she tought I would abandoned her!
