The house is on the market

[mishka422]

I'm sorry Julia. Boundaries, boundaries, boundaries. You agreed that nothing else would go on the credit card, correct? Then he needs to stick to that agreement. If he needs money, can't he go to his parents? He made this mess himself and now he has to pay the consequences.

I know, sounds harsh, but don't back down. Saying 'yes' wouldn't create an easy life for you, only for him. One more way he can manipulate your feelings.

Sorry, this is probably coming across really negatively isn't it? I just don't want to see you hurt further on and I really feel that this is his problem to deal with. He doesn't want the M then he gets NONE of the benefits.