I don't feel proud. I feel like I should have seen that it was coming. But I didn't. I trusted him totally. And she, I can't tell you how many times she told me "I just like to flirt, you have nothing what-so-ever to fear from me." Oh sure!!!!!!
I know that my own behaviors helped to make my H feel insecure and needy. And of course the cancer thing didn't help at all, either.
He put on a good front, but in hind sight I know he was really freaking out.
Most of us are about as happy as we make up our minds to be.
