I just have a really brief moment to post but I wanted some urgent advice on something. H emailed me and has said that he has had an unexpected tax bill and could he put the money on our credit card (my credit card which I told him he could no longer use). It is not very much but really, his bills are no longer my responsibility - he left, chose to move in with ow I shouldn't have to bail him out right? Plus the bill is for his new apartment!!! Nothing to do with me, why should I pay for his new life.
The debt on the card is a joint debt and we have agreed that we will pay it off from the house. BUt this is adding to it which I haven't done since we split. Basically he is looking for a loan I think. It isn't very much money but I feel like it would be enabling him to say yes but I don't know how to say no.
From what he has said he already has his own credit card, he has the latest play station, a new car... He no longer pays towards the house and we are on our mortgage break at the moment so at the moment he is paying nothing to me, which is fine, the new mortgage is in the pipeline.
What do you think I should do? It wouldn't hurt me to say yes, but I just don't feel that it is anything to do with me now. How do I say in the nicest possible way 'sorry not my problem'? Or should I just say yes for an easy life?
