I also get the "you never know" every now and then. Drives me nuts! The reason I filed is this:
H had gone to school for his job for a week when I found all the text messages that were between he and OW while he was gone. He would not call me at all during this week because we had been fighting about OW but he spent a LOT of time on the phone with OW the whole time he was at school. He would call D7 at night.
Well I had read a text the day he was leaving to come home where H and OW were going to meet up before he actually got to the house. That infuriated me. He wanted to see OW before coming home to see D7 after not seeing her for a week and knew how excited she was that he was on his way back.
He denied meeting up with OW but I read it myself. That was the last straw for me. I went to the bank the day he headed home and pulled out the money to retain a L so H could not take all the money when he got back.
I do regret filing because I know that is one part that is making any reconciliation impossible right now(besides OW). He throws it in my face every now and then. But I also did it to make sure I could get CS established so that I could take care of me and D7. Without paperwork he could do anything he wanted to hurt me financially.
The skank called him all weekend long this weekend. She was home early (with her H) so my H would call me every night trying to find out what I was doing. He couldn't talk to her so guess who he would call....me. That irritates me to no end. I am good enough as long as he can't talk to her.
Apparantely OW is in court this morning because her stepson's mom is going after her for CS. Didn't know you could do that but I guess so. Not sure why her H is not paying CS. She always has weird drama going on. I don't understand why H doesn't seem to mind it.
