Thanks for all your feedback. I will keep the info, but not do anything with it unless it's needed. Quite honestly, I don't htink it will be.
I also am so grateful that my experience has been "positive" compared to some of you out there. I'm flabbergasted at the things some have to deal with...like above. My husband has been great through all of this...although it would have been greater if he figured it out BEFORE he had the affair!