Hey Bobbi, thats really sad to read, it must be so hard on you, well done for crying and being honest with your boss! I dont have children, but I can only imagine how gut wrenching it is to see your little boy suffer like that. Inevitable fall out of Dans inability to sort out his emotional issues whilst remaining in a committed M with you...such a shame that men need to go away to come back..like that Venus/Mars theory, men are like elastic bands.. they need to stretch away, isnt that it, before they snap back? If he does come back that is, as Sara says. Thinking of you,