Theory number two is that i am still healing and that i do not want to get hurt. Now if that were the case I would not even initiate contact.
ahhh I get theory number 2...Ya know what I finallty figured out John..life is full of hurts...it's how you handle and learn from the hurts..that's what defines you as a person...
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Finally theory number three is that I do not want to hurt someone else and therefore need to be absolutely sure of the viability of the potential relationship.
ahhh a sure thing? IMO there are no sure things in this day and time..any relationship means busting your asss to make it work and hope that your partner does not quit on you..
I got nothing for Theory one..maybe when you look at her and see that "blank sheet of paper" then you will know you're done..
it's all I got brother..not much..probably doesn't help..
