Hi Holly, Enjoyed your story, I'm trying to understand whats going on with my W as well. I wish I could see it from her perspective more clearly. I'd like to see more stories from those going through it... R
MWG, you are right, we cannot harbor unforgiveness and expect to be able to move on with our lives, that is why we need to seek Jesus and his forgiveness.
m-54 w-44 children-4 bomb-sept 21 2007 t-21 m-20yrs bomb-sept 23 2007 divorced but not giving up hope, not yethttp://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...rue#post1224023
I know I have stumbled time and time again but I begin to ask God to help ME. and He does. When one has a hardened heart, they cannot get from step 1 to step 2 and neither can one feel that peace and contentment.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I talk to a guy who has a wife in MLC. He is like a little brother to me. He wanted to save his marriage, and still does in some ways, but knows he has to let her go, and protect himself. He filed..... he wants his wife to become a better person and hopes to reconcile later. But the stuff this woman does is amazing!
She had her lawyer send a letter to her husband telling him to stop prolonging the divorce,etc etc, and in the next paragraph explaining why she needs more time to move out of their home because of the repairs needed to the home she is moving to! He is encouraging her to go.... as a matter of fact she is to be paying him to stay there as she was court ordered to leave the home by Dec. 9th and is still there today!!!!
They really are falling off a cliff in slow motion.
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.
This is 25yearsmlc, which I guess you already know...just saw your names on the post and had to say hi to both. I have not posted a thread lately but have thrown my two cents into lots of other's, as usual. I'm trying to ask you a private question and don't know all the new rules for the site, so let me see if I can send you a private msg and if not, if I cannot give you my email address here, faithfulH and Faithisbelieving have it. "Anyfoofoo", for now, I'm happy to see you guys here, and yet not, well, you know what I mean...
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M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
So good to see you keeping that postitive energy. And I'm positive that I miss all your energy spinnin round the pole.
Hope all is well at work with the tiny tots, and at home round the grown kiddos.
It must be hard to listen to some of the MLC stories and to hear their version of reality, knowing that they have so often wrecked their own life trying desperately to somehow improve their lot. Very sad indeed. I have heard a few myself.
It does get very hard to listen to stories from the other side, and not take them out of their mysery. Perhaps letting them live is punishment enough for the hurt and pain they created all around. Oh well, thinking about all that does get in the way of living our own life, so ... tell us more about your wild self.
You been teaching any swimming, or going to meets? Hope the girls are ok, and wasn't there a very spoiled pup? Keep up the positive energy, the world needs it.
M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 *2016* X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016
