You've got to stop thinking and damning and all else.
Start focusing on you, your hobbies, kids, etc. Until you do this, you will go around in circles.
Don't call him, don't insult or yell at him. He expects you to do those things because you always have. You have to have ZERO expectations. He is not going to come home based on those actions, is he?
Try really hard this week to:
focus on you, your kids, your hobbies try not to call him at all unless someone is in an emergency situation
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
