I feel...I don't know how...because I have realized my mistakes in the M, but he/they refuse to recognize his. Well, she said he recognizes the drinking, but that then he tried to become someone he's not by NOT DRINKING. Does that make sense to anyone?? She said he tried to change himself to become what I wanted. By not drinking??? Are you kidding me??
Does this sound absurd to anyone else?
Of course it's absurd!! But that's an alcoholic family system. She is a massive enabler. Your affair is like...a godsend even...to people like this. YOU'RE the reason, Mel, you are the wonderful, perfect, saving excuse.
And H is half out of his mind because...you won't operate within the system anymore. WTF is wrong with MEL??? She's not playing by our rules anymore. Our unwritten rules that make H the king of his pathetic universe.
I love that...he was trying to be someone's he not?? As in...not an alcoholic?
Anyway...welcome to the path to sanity. ;P I hope OW enjoys cleaning up vomit and entertaining strangers from bars at midnight.
