WAW - yet another one

[confusedinpa]

Another thing is that we're going to a counseling session tonite.

At the end of my first week "panic" attack, she had said she was tired of my "Hallmark" moments and my "campaigning". She said that I don't need to make promises or tell her how much I love her. She said "just do it". She said there is nothing that I will say or promise that will make up her mind for her.

I guess the positive is that she is at least still considering the possiblitly of giving it another chance.

This past week I was a little better, but she said that I still wind up talking about our relationship with her too much. She reminded me that the fact that she's still in the house means she's still thinking about it. I don't have to keep bringing it up.

Right now I'm transitioning to the "last resort" move.

My question now though is what do I say in the counseling session tonite? I did vet out the counselor and she said that she is a supporter of marriage and has about a 50/50 success rate of working with couples. Not a great rate, but she said she has had experience working with couples in our situation.

Any thoughts or suggestions?