LD my friend! Have you protected yourself financially? I may have missed it but are you guys legally separated? What happens if your W kills someone in the car or causes a multi car accident with multiple persons injured/killed/maimed and the ensuing litigation exceeds the liability insurance limits etc.........during a drinking spree?
I think the standing for your marriage stuff is wonderful. Problem is that you have no marriage. Not only does your W cheat on you but she is not even showing the slightest discretion. The drama I read in this unbelievable. My point being that really horrible dysfunctional behavior slowly but surely can become the norm if you let it. Probably not healthy for you.....or her.
From a religious standpoint, God let you out of this marriage as soon as she engaged in the infidelity aspect of her wild behavior. When is enough? Where do you draw the line? What does this teach your daughters? How much respect could your W possibly have for you, the longer this goes on? Just food for thought.
Me- 47 W- 45 Married 22 years Together 30 years No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat 2005 - 2007 W in MLT 1/08 - Crisis hits 3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA 4/08 W files for divorce 8/08 Divorce final
