Financially you have to protect yourself and the children.
Who cares if he gets mad.
That is life.
A consequence of having a concubine.
He could possibly want some type of revenge and file for D.
At least you are aware of this and could emotionally prepare yourself.
Me: 46 H:44 Together: 25 years Married: 20 years Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07 OW: EA began 2005 PA began end of 2006 3 children,20, 16, 6 ex asked for forgiveness 01/16/11