Financially you have to protect yourself and the children.

Who cares if he gets mad.

That is life.

A consequence of having a concubine.

He could possibly want some type of revenge and file for D.

At least you are aware of this and could emotionally prepare yourself.


Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11