Weekend is over. W left to drive her BF home who was driving MIL nuts. MIL was very upset adn told W not to bother coming back, it would be too late. d21 and her Boyfriend were here, son and DIL and grandson al;so. We were all watching gladiator. Son looked out the door, W had come back, he packed up his family and left, 5 minutes later D21 and her boyfrined left. Hmmmmm, nope, definitely ain'y me...
she sat in a corner of the room, I stretched out on the couch and let the MIL suit in the most comfrotable chair in the world!!!. Mine....
MIL mentioned my business trip and W was all about when are you leaving for that, and why didn't you tell me...I told her I leave Feb 2nd, why? she was concerned bout D17 being left alone, said she won't be D21 will be here.
I picked up after the movie and MIL and W said there good-byes, i went into the other room. No good-bye, no drop dead, no thanks for everything you did for my mother, nothing....
Half expected at least a good bye, but whatever. when she had left to drive her best friend home, everyone was on edge and stone faced. When they left we all chilled were talking and laughing. When she came in she saw us all laughing and having a good time. I was sitting at one end of the couch and she sat on the chair next to me rather than the other end of the couch. After DIL got up to leave, she was sitting int he middle of the couch next to me, I moved to the other end and put my feet up.
No signs, no nothing. Feel good still, just upset that I left my house today, but you know, it was better to leave angry adn come back calm then to blow up and drive everything into chaos.
D21 was having a beer and W asked to tryit. She says that was good any left, D21 said know. they had a whole 12 pack. she doesn't drink and get wrecked everytime she drinks, she literally drinks almost everyday. MIL was heartbroken when she left, said none of this was right. she said I was the perfect host and W should have kissed my ass for throwing such a goodtime for her, having nephews b'day, making the cake, cooking all the food, doing all the cleaning and paying for it all!. W never thanked me for anything, never acknowledged anything, nothing. But then again, she pissed away 31 years, what was a weeeknd.