It was suggested to me once that perhaps I had emasculated ex. I stepped up when he wouldn't and did basically everything save mow the lawn(allergies)on a regular basis and work a second job on the weekends. So the idea was that he felt like less of a man and that this wasn't a life of his making, since I was doing pretty much everything else.
What a perfect reason to have an affair and break up your family!! Don't know if your H thinks maybe the same way to some degree. Thanks by stopping by the alternate universe. I appreciate it.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory