and thanks for making me see the good things I have done for me. Didn't realize really until you spelled them out.
You are very welcome! I'm just glad you listen to an old divorced lady.
I just see things that *maybe* would have changed my outcome. I say 'maybe' because who knows. I can't flounder in the 'what if's', but I know some things were degrading to me, and didn't help my self esteem at all. I feel like I missed out on a year of my life, like I wasn't me, and that I can't get back.