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Forgive your sister please. God knows if I were in her shoes, there'd be "words"...to be sure. I mean, I don't even know your w, (though I sure feel I do) and I want to slap her silly. I think I'd have called her a "cruel, emotionally unstable narcissist", but that is only if I was expecting the call, and your poor sister wasn't. I feel for your sister btw. How is she feeling about it all now? Bleh!

So, what's worse for the kids? A private rebuke from your sister to your stbxw, or your w's outbursts in front of the kids, to you? Um, by far, the latter. Only a person blind to their own failings and shortcomings and repeated misbehavior, would fail to see that. Too bad your stbxw falls into that category. Geez, her and her tantrums. You'd think even she'd tire of them. They exhaust most 3 year olds.

((( j )))


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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Forgive your sister please. God knows if I were in her shoes, there'd be "words"...to be sure. I mean, I don't even know your w, (though I sure feel I do) and I want to slap her silly. I think I'd have called her a "cruel, emotionally unstable narcissist", but that is only if I was expecting the call, and your poor sister wasn't. I feel for your sister btw. How is she feeling about it all now? Bleh!

So, what's worse for the kids? A private rebuke from your sister to your stbxw, or your w's outbursts in front of the kids, to you? Um, by far, the latter. Only a person blind to their own failings and shortcomings and repeated misbehavior, would fail to see that. Too bad your stbxw falls into that category. Geez, her and her tantrums. You'd think even she'd tire of them. They exhaust most 3 year olds.

((( j )))


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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Forgive your sister please. God knows if I were in her shoes, there'd be "words"...to be sure. I mean, I don't even know your w, (though I sure feel I do) and I want to slap her silly. I think I'd have called her a "cruel, emotionally unstable narcissist", but that is only if I was expecting the call, and your poor sister wasn't. I feel for your sister btw. How is she feeling about it all now? Bleh!

So, what's worse for the kids? A private rebuke from your sister to your stbxw, or your w's outbursts in front of the kids, to you? Um, by far, the latter. Only a person blind to their own failings and shortcomings and repeated misbehavior, would fail to see that. Too bad your stbxw falls into that category. Geez, her and her tantrums. You'd think even she'd tire of them. They exhaust most 3 year olds.

((( j )))


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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Forgive your sister please. God knows if I were in her shoes, there'd be "words"...to be sure. I mean, I don't even know your w, (though I sure feel I do) and I want to slap her silly. I think I'd have called her a "cruel, emotionally unstable narcissist", but that is only if I was expecting the call, and your poor sister wasn't. I feel for your sister btw. How is she feeling about it all now? Bleh!

So, what's worse for the kids? A private rebuke from your sister to your stbxw, or your w's outbursts in front of the kids, to you? Um, by far, the latter. Only a person blind to their own failings and shortcomings and repeated misbehavior, would fail to see that. Too bad your stbxw falls into that category. Geez, her and her tantrums. You'd think even she'd tire of them. They exhaust most 3 year olds.

((( j )))


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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Forgive your sister please. God knows if I were in her shoes, there'd be "words"...to be sure. I mean, I don't even know your w, (though I sure feel I do) and I want to slap her silly. I think I'd have called her a "cruel, emotionally unstable narcissist", but that is only if I was expecting the call, and your poor sister wasn't. I feel for your sister btw. How is she feeling about it all now? Bleh!

So, what's worse for the kids? A private rebuke from your sister to your stbxw, or your w's outbursts in front of the kids, to you? Um, by far, the latter. Only a person blind to their own failings and shortcomings and repeated misbehavior, would fail to see that. Too bad your stbxw falls into that category. Geez, her and her tantrums. You'd think even she'd tire of them. They exhaust most 3 year olds.

((( j )))


M: 57 H: 60
M: 35 yrs
S30,D28,D19
H off to Alaska 2006
Recon 7/07- 8/08
*2016*
X = "ALASKA 2.0"
GROUND HOG DAY
I File D 10/16
OW
DIV 2/26/2018
X marries OW 5/2016

= CLOSURE 4 ME
Embrace the Change
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25 must really mean it, she posted the hell out of it.....

Look FIB, just please tell me that you are journaling all of this insanity that she pulls in front of your kids. Seriously conduct detrimental to your childrens well being and there is no excuse for it. Her insanity is just fine when you are the only one that has to deal with it but your kids do not deserve this nonsense.

One more thing, it's not a federal offense if you are married and guess what, you still are. So tell her to coo, her jets and back the hell off. If you were just trying to be a dick you would of lost her passport....

Hang in there my friend, there is a light at the end of this tunnel........


Ian


M- 48
XW- mentally 17
KIDS- 3- S19, D23, D28
Married- 17 years
Divorce final- 10/16/09

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If she was a reasonable person, you could print the below article and have her read it to understand how to NOT act in front of the kids...

http://parenting.families.com/blog/top-12-divorced-parenting-mistakes

You sir are taking the high road and I commend you!

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