That's exactly what I'm afraid of. Pushing her away by me obsessing over it. I think if I would've found Divorce busters months ago we would be in a better place. I'm telling my story because knowing other peoples stories or opinions help me get through it all. I know to move on and make my marriage what it once was I need to forgive and forget. This I'm trying. Hopefully my wife doesn't give up because I can't let go. So I sit here today with my head between my legs hoping I didn't do to much harm with my stupid name calling and time and space will make her forgive me. That's what I pray for............