BND, why do you choose to think you know so much about my H and me? You got a supposed email that you keep to yourself and now you believe he's a WAS when all along you said he's MLC. You even told me that if he were a WAS, he'd have filed and have no contact after all this time. You know nothing about me as you claim too. We haven't spoken for some time now and alot of things are changing. Believe it or not, I really don't care. You're nothing to me but a cyber being. Why are you still here if your life is so grand? Don't waste space on others threads, please, go right to mine. It's not kind of you to do this to anyone.
Dar, I am so sorry if you are offended by my posts.
I post here when I can because there are some people here that I owe alot to because they helped me through the hardest time of my life.
I post because I know that there are some people who are receptive of my help and are willing to learn and change and become the person they were destined to be, with or without their Spouse.
No Dar, I am not being mean about your Situation, and you have always told me to be honest with you...or do you prefer I lie to you? I honestly do not think your Husband is a MLC'er.
I admit in the begining I really thought he was, but the more I have learned about the sitch, the more I see that it isn't him who has the real issues.
Although I owe you no explanation, my life is good....I have the same ups and downs as everyone else and a Husband who is happy to be home again. I have a job I enjoy, my kids are all doing well in school and we are all healthy.
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.
