Excellent job.

I agree with what your friend said.

Your H is loving both worlds.

It does not cause him to miss out on anything.

I think you need to disappear from his life, Cinders.

It is only then that he will feel a void.

Make that void happen.

That is what is in your control.

Nothing else has worked.

Me: 46 H:44
Together: 25 years
Married: 20 years
Separated: 11-30-06 Divorced 12-21-07
OW: EA began 2005
PA began end of 2006
3 children,20, 16, 6
ex asked for forgiveness
01/16/11