There is nothing extra from her...I was hoping for some light to peak through the clouds I guess.
This is called an expectation. You're far to early in this thing to be having them. You should expect to see NOTHING positive from her for awhile.
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It feels like this ship is sinking.
Yeah, it will feel like that quite often. Your job for now is to figure out how to deal with those feelings without allowing them to bring you down.
When you're down you do stupid things. Like initiate relationship talks...
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I'm trying to bail it out while no one wants to fix the leak.
If your analogy is applied correctly, you're doing the wrong thing. You shouldn't be bailing anything out relationship wise. You are to be focusing on YOU. And really anything BUT the relationship and your wife.
I know you don't like that.
I'm sorry about that.
Blessings,
Bill
"Don't tell me the sky is the limit when there are footprints on the moon."
