I am an old poster here. I have had a long history of dealing with a MLC, and it is still in progress. I am divorced, doing well even though it is not my wishes. It seems like it is the time of year that brings out the potential MLC, and the doors are opening all around me, and I see marriages of 1 1/2 years to 15 years plus falling apart. THis weekend I go a glimps into the sad mind of a WAS, possible MLC. She was a mess. She is a Mom acquantance, the blonde bombshell, and all the equipement to match. She is her daughter's best friend, but sometime the daughter has to become the parent. I just got to know the woman last night and because I was sober, got to drive her home while she sobbed and told me her divorce story,,,,,, she wanted it. She wanted me time, did not know until she was final, that she had full custody of the kids, while X got a new apartment and she got the house. She is not happy with her lot, and grumbled about it...... she wants to trade her minivan in for a 2 seater sports car, on a part time job, and 2 kids at home.
She was pouring out her story, and crying and telling me how responsible she feels for all the hurt and pain,
and and and,
It was exhausting. And sad.
Just thought you would like to see a glimps of the mind. To everyone else, she looks happy and content. Everything she wants. Car, home children, husband who supports and don't have to clean up after...
OM? Can't say, she did not reveal.... But if I had to put money on it....
SHE IS NOT HAPPY!
Bomb 1/06 D dismissed 11/07, attempt reconciliation. Premature. Divorce final October 31, 2008. OW looks like bad history. Over. Still hopeful. Baby steps. In R with my X.