Hi soulm8,

Thanks for the post on my thread. I am at that crossroads of trying to decide how to move forward, it can't stay the way that it is now.

What you have gone through with your H has a lot of similarities to DanceQueen's R with her ex-H. I will try to sent her your way as I think she may be able to help you.

Here is the link to her thread about her letter to her ex-H. I finally got closure

I hope this helps you.

Cinco