Contact OW?

[mdoodles]

if u are already in recovery and the a was well over a year ago, the ow lives in another state and u dont think your h is in contact with her, i really feel u should not contact her. for what if u know it is over and in the past?

believe me, i know how u feel, when i got my hands on the ow number, i couldnt control myself, however, at that time, my h was still seeing her and lying to her and me.

i have had plenty of contact with the ow in my situation, and to be honest, i wish i never did. she has called me, texted me. the first time i spoke to her, i got out everything i needed to say. but she didnt listen. she doesnt care about his wife, his family. she spoke so nasty to me and told me terrible lies to make me leave, i could have had her brought up on charges. i have now blocked her from having access to calling me.

hold the number. hold your information. if there is ever a time to use it, u will be sure and u will be glad u saved your one phone call.

but please understand, i know u want to know things. but having been in the position also of wanting to know, i have truly decided that some things are better left to your imagination, to the unknown and in the past.