But you are the winner in all of this as you have your Son, and your X has nothing.
I do think however you giv e him way to much head space and he is so not worth it.
Maybe you should tell whomever it is that is giving you these updates on him that you no longer want to know any details about his life or about the OW.
It will much your life much less complicated.
Have a blessed day today!!!
((((hugs))))
There can be no testimony without a test. I am praying to go through this test and come out the other end with a new and better marriage then before.