You wanted to have a nice and relaxing birthday, not one where you are on pins and needles or getting upset.

Enjoy it with the kids. Splurge. Take them out to dinner or something.

The Bomb: 08/05
H moves out: 06/2006
H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07
H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08
H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09
Divorced 08-12
Kids: 22, 20, 19