Hi true, just popping by as I havent been on for a while, glad you are feeling a bit better, one thing I did want to comment on is the statement you made about your he still being in lalala land, even after all this time true, if it helps I still think my ex is out there as well, he is still telling fantastic lies, still not contacting son and everyone that speaks to me about him still says he is not the man I knew and a lot of people dont like the man he as turned into, so true I guess we have two of the men that are out in mlc for a very long time, I am like you and have been at this the same length of time, what are we now, 4 years, oh well their loss, take care