I let S8 make his own decision today. I did not try and control him. He had a choice between going to basketball practice (his mom is the coach) or spend day with my dad. He chose to spend time with my dad. I know W will blame me, BUT I DO NOT CARE!!! Her issue not mine. Another bench mark in my growth. If she brings it up, "Sorry you feel that way" with a smile on my face......She is unhappy and angry (and very controlling) and I am not taking her garbage anymore.....
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712