I have ALL his contact info and its really difficult to not use it. What would I gain from using it? Thats arguable.
Funny you mention it...
I've had the OM's contact info 6 months (unknown to her or him) and never felt the need to use it. My wife is big girl and she knew what she was doing...he didn't drug her.
Well, tonight I find out that she left our S7 at a stranger's house (strange to him) so she could go out with OM. On Tuesday, my son had a nightmare that W and I had left him alone somewhere and never came back...so what does she do? Exactly that.
Incredible.
I texted her asking if S7 was going to stay the night at the stranger's...no response. I called. Voicemail. I called again, and this time left a msg stating that if she didn't call me back I would find another way to reach her.
So what did I do? I called called the OM and asked him to hand the phone to her. "Who is this" he asked. "Her husband" I answered. LONG pause. "I don't think I want to..." and he hung up.
HAHAHAH!
Guess who called me 5 minutes later? You guessed it...she did.
My point is...save the contact info...you never know when you might need it.
H: 38 W: 36 S: 8 S: 5 M: 16 Bomb: 8/25/08 OM: 9/21/08 EA (Possible PA) with co-worker since 5/08 (at least...) Sep: 9/21/08 D Filed 9/23/08 My Situation
You guessed it...she did. 
