When the bubble bursts in our favor !

[peacetoday]

cinders
Thats the way I feel as well
Its scary to let go
we have tried so hard to be there and be their friend
we probably had to do that
and maybe it is time to move ahead
maybe a season of being dark will shed some light on our situation
as I detach more, my H is also moving further away
But I sense it is part of his journey
maybe he has to totally explore his OW and options of getting all his emotional needs met by her
I think at this point it doesnt matter what I do
nothing will achieve the desired outcome
going dim, being less available makes sense
I have to take care of myself-you too
good luck
peace