OMG, people. Talked to MIL today. She is in Scottsdale trying to find out if she has stomach cancer or not. And she calls and I miss it and then she calls back later.
Boy, does she have things to tell. Anyone care to guess where OW slept when she went home with H to MIL's house for Christmas? MIL refused to answer the question, which of course confirmed my suspicions. Then I ask her if they are holding hands, kissing, hugging, that kind of stuff, and again, no answer. LMAO, because he tells me he doesn't want a wife!!! Ugh. So he is supposed to bring kids over tonight. She asked me of course to not report him because he could get in trouble and lose his career. BFD, to me, but whatever. Thought about telling him that he either needs to get her out by Wednesday or I would file a formal complaint with Base Legal/OSI or whoever. He is letting her talk bad about me in front of the kids, which really hurts. The baby is too young, but S13 is not. MIL was going to call him as soon as we hung up and tell what I knew so that I wouldn't have to, and because she was the one who told me. I'm not buying the "she slept on the floor" or "where else could she sleep" bit. I'm buying the "if she needed to sleep in the bed, you could have slept with the kids" bit. I am calling a lawyer first thing Monday morning and proceeding full speed ahead, I believe. Unless you guys tell me something to slow me down. This tit for tat stuff has been going on for awhile. How mature is this?????
But whatever. He will be here in a minute so I am going to post this and then be back in a minute to tell you how it went. We'll see.
Unbelievable.
A few questions. S13 has been living with him for the last 6 months. I am going to ask S13 if he wants to live with me due to what he is hearing there. Anybody have any opinions? How do I handle him tonight? I am cutting him off at the front door. I don't really want to even talk to him tonight. I'm sure he'll try to talk me out of everything and deny it all. It may not even be true, I guess, but who in their right mind plays this stupid?? I mean, really???
I'm singing my song girls..."if it weren't for bad luck I'd have no luck at all!!!"
Mel
"Standing knee deep in a river and dying of thirst."
