Ian, 25...thank you for your support. You two know...that I am not here for sugar coating, back pats, or for anyone to blow smoke up my kilt at how great a guy I really was or to hear that 'my wife is sick'.

I am in a personal battle to stay strong for my children now and get out of this with as little collateral damage to them as possible. I come here to stay straight...not to 'save my marriage'..but to cope with the type of woman my wife has become....to keep fair and NOT do the things she is doing.

I don't have to.

I don't want to.

My children love her as they should and I don't intend to try and have a parenting contest. I love my mom. She was/is the bulwark of our family and for the life of me, I don't know how all you women do it...but then again...I think I do.

FIB

PS...to Ian....all I can say is....Xbox 360 and Guitar Hero. LOLOL. My W can have everything...just give me the flat panel TV (typical man, right?) As Bworl would say, blessings.

Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11)
Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t
Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10
Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;