Ian...I have an angry, immature wife that looks to start trouble. Details to follow. I am NOT going to be walked all over anymore. FIB
I know that FIB and I watch you in complete amazement on here every day. Maybe you misunderstood.
I am wondering what preparations you are making for once it is over? Where you will live, how you want your place to look, ideas for your kids rooms, etc....
I guess my point is it would be cool to hear some of the awesome things that you are planning once you are released back into society. I think focusing on some of those things might do you a world of good.
I do not in anyway mean to make light of your sitch, but the pancakes thing made me laugh. I mean come on...... it's just crazy how she reacts. I think the pressure of all of this is getting to her dude.
I am also rather amazed at how you are able to always follow up with the right things. The text to her was perfect my friend. YOU are setting an amazing example for many.