I agree with Kat. I did email the OW one time and didn't really regret it, but didn't really gain anything from it either. My H said something to me like "you're looking guilty" or something as if I'm the evil one in this! Hah! I do think the OP tend to be selfish, self-oriented people so their response will either be nothing (as in my case) or something that would benefit them, i.e. maybe causing you pain or whatever. So in retrospect, I don't think I would do that again. Karen
