WCW, lol, normal is the last word that springs to mind for these situations.
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Even a normal R has ups and downs and cycles.

I agree but this is so far removed from normal you cannot possibly compare.
Maybe reality is trying to surface.
Are we really talking love here or duty? Not the same thing at all in imo.
MWG is finding her way on her own with her new ventures and job,seeing that she is a capable and independant person.I would encourage her to keep finding her way and maybe listen to those inner feelings.
Her H could be stuck in this mode forever (heaven forbid) but the more she can detach the beter for her and her family.She has absolutely nothing to feel guilty about her feelings.Love and dependancy should not be confused.
Enjoy the peace MWG whatever happens you will be fine. Great to count your blessings as you do.