<< I know you men hate whining, but, there is always a reason for us to do so. And it usually takes very little effort from our men to stop us, alas, not very men realise that.
K, Very true, so the smart thing then is communicating that "little bit" in a clear, respectful way so your man will listen and get it. I think your T's advice in that last paragraph is very smart. I can feel your positive energy flowing.