Thanks... he definitely has some more growing up to do.

I could be wrong but I do not believe there was ow. The story he told was full of holes and was apparent he was lying. He fabricated to make me angry and get me to sign the D papers. I think during our conversation, he realized he could not keep the lie up so he admitted he lied. What a man!

The push for the D is he believes I can postpone for at least another year b/c of us being in the military. Of course he does not want to wait that long. However the legal aspect he thinks applies does not and the D is moving forward. I told him this again today. I'm also sure if there is the possibility of another woman this year, he wants to be free & single to go for it.

Either way, I need distance & more detachment like you said. I'm grateful to have God to help me heal and provide me with support... as well as everyone here :-)


Me:28, first M
H: 33, second M
Married: 08/08
Bomb: 10/08
H filed D and deployed: 12/08
Served: 04/09
I deploy: 07/09
Hearing date: 08/09