Hi all. Been silent for a couple days - all kinds of cr@p happening.
In a nutshell from Thursday: - W alleged physical abuse (ABSOLUTELY UNFOUNDED) and threatened to call police - KIDS STOPPED HER. Bad scene followed with raised voices, kids scared. I blew it - couldn't keep control and yelled back.
- W left house - took D11 with her despite my objections
- W arranged for S14 and D16 to go to friends, again despite my objections.
- W telling everyone it was "unsafe" to stay because of physical and verbal abuse; friends are calling her on the physical and she backs away very quickly.
- I documented the evening's events and forwarded to my L who in turn contacted her L. Will also be contacting authorities Monday (I have approved the letter) to warn of the possible allegations coming.
This sucks! The k's have been filled with stuff from W (D11 said she had to go with W because W said she would lose rights with D11 if she did not; k's say W will move out if I give her money of which there is none, but k's have been told there is lots).
D16 and S14 have said they do not want to choose - yet by having W make arrangements with them, they have. My take - k's are SCARED / TERRIFIED of W.
I slept for maybe 1 hour Thursday night. Busy day at work Friday helped. Went to movie with S14 last night - said he could sleep in own room tonight, wouldn't be choosing anything other than sleep in his own room. He looked very sad.
LIS
M45 WW 43 D17/S14/D11
ILYB Jan 08 PA Conf Feb 08 OMW / OM contacted S Jan / 09
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