I am thinking the other side of the coin. If some "evidence" that someone else had could help you keep your kids etc, wouldn't you want their help? I wouldn't do it to be malicious but really if it is perhaps his kids he is trying to keep, I would help. Just my take on it.
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Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory