I agree on giving up my intel... I won't and thanks for some wording to have that pre-planned to handle that part more effectively when I choose to have that conversation.
I just feel like I need to wait for a short period of time to see if this is over before I confront. If it is over I could regress from where we are and possibly push her out the door which will make all of this harder.
Don't get me wrong, all of my emotions are screaming for confrontation, which may ultimately need to happen regardless, but if I am really working on 180's according to Db principles, I need to step back briefly.
She is acting more upbeat the last couple of days, which may indicate the stress of the deceit may be a burden off of her shoulders. I have some time on this I think. I can pull the trigger anytime...
What do you think Puppy?
Jeff
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
