Well, just a bit of journaling today. The other day after receiving the D papers, I changed the lock on my house, so my H nolonger has entry. Don't know if that was the right thing to do, since many of his things are still here. Yet, I did it more as an act to protect my privacy and move on w/life.
So, I called M3 last night & opened with a silly statement when he answered to break the ice (so to speak). Then I told him the answer to the 2 ciders we couldn't remember from the other night. We were talking about the UK & I told him about having a snakebite black and snakebite red & how good they were. Can't get them here in the US. Well, not without buying a pint of cider & a pint of ale & mixing them together yourself. I told him about my D papers & the mistake w/my birth date & asked him out again for my b'day. He laughed. He didn't say no - so I said to him that must mean a yes. And left it at that. He also talked about his D briefly too. We ended up chatting for an hour about misc things, even though he didn't feel that well. I made him laugh, by being sarcastic & witty at times. I offered to take him to the thrift stores here sometime, if he wanted. Strange how he told me what he had done that day & what his plans were for the weekend. He also asked about my day & my weekend plans. Again, I only say it is strange because, I'm not used to being asked even those vague questions. We each have are own plans, of doing nothing important for the weekend - so that's ok. No awkward goodbye, as I told him my phone battery was dying & it did, before we said goodbye. I didn't call him back to say goodbye & left it at that.
All I have to say is damn it ..... that my LL is quality time!!!
Me39, XH45 Kids 3 dogs, 2 cats Divorced 6/4/09 Tricky thing is not how you live, but how you live with yourself. (POTC)
He laughed. He didn't say no - so I said to him that must mean a yes. And left it at that. He also talked about his D briefly too. We ended up chatting for an hour about misc things, even though he didn't feel that well. I made him laugh, by being sarcastic & witty at times. I offered to take him to the thrift stores here sometime, if he wanted. Strange how he told me what he had done that day & what his plans were for the weekend. He also asked about my day & my weekend plans. Again, I only say it is strange because, I'm not used to being asked even those vague questions. We each have are own plans, of doing nothing important for the weekend - so that's ok. No awkward goodbye, as I told him my phone battery was dying & it did, before we said goodbye. I didn't call him back to say goodbye & left it at that.
