Karen: , I'd like to help him out anyway I can. But then, my 2nd thought is is that the right, ethical, Christian taking the high road thing to do; to help OW's H in his D settlement (if that's what my L or OW's H wants me to do)??? Any ideas? Knowing my L she will want me to help out her H, and hurt the OW in any way possible
I would stay out of it, any information regarding your H and OW is already documented. Without first hand information (actually seeing them together) would just be unsubstantiated information. Your L can provide him with a copy of your H deposition (his L may have to petition the courts to get a copy). Eventhough one party had an A, doesn't have much bearing on disposition of property or custody issues, unless you can prove person is an unfit parent, but having an A doesn't make you an unfit parent in the courts eyes. I don't know how much help you can be.
What OW H needs is your prayers, we can all use that
M45 W41 M10.75 years D9, D7, D7, S6 OM confirmed 12/07 merry christmas to me New Abbreviation = WAM (Walk Away Mom) 05/31/08 W files for D 07/18/08
