Hey native, That was some interesting insight you had about your business partner & the WAW senario. There does seem to be many corrilations.

Sorry, to hear that your W was angry towards you and that you feel disrespected. You have very right to feel that way. It's oblivious that she cannot deal with the stresses of life and your M at the current moment. Anger seems to be a common theme with WAW, while totally avoiding seems to be the WAH common theme. And maybe that is because women in general are more emotional. Remember, you did have a R talk not too long ago, and she is also probably pulling back from that. You might have been ready for that step & maybe she was not. Many times, what we think will bring us closer does not. Strange isn't it?? Keep venting here. You need to keep working & get to a place where HER mood doesn't affect you very much. Easier said than done - I know. Have you checked out your cheese tunnels lately?? I realize that througout my DB process I really did keep going down the same tunnels. Try to identify them & really work on choosing another. Do you normally contact your W or does she contact you?? Have you tried only contacting her about D6 issues? How about no more R talks until you really see her anger subside? Just throwing out suggestions here. How is your GAL coming along?? What have you been doing?? Stay strong & get that PMA going again! \:\)


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