Okay, this one gets printed and hung up where I can see it, regularly.
Whatever pain and desperation you have been going through, you have clearly come through it with INCREDIBLE insight and wisdom. There are people faced with adversity and sadness who never see the opportunity it presents, let alone learn from it. Not only have you accomplished both of those things, but you have emerged from it as someone who can set an example for others, like me, on this journey.