nlt, Once the "ho" thinks she has won the prize (by stealing your h), things will change. You see, she is really feeling very insecure and wants to make sure that you remain angry and hoping against hope that you've found someone else. As long as you are still in the background and have a tie to your xh and have not married, you are a very real threat to her. It doesn't matter that she's married him and got the prize.....she knows that the prize can just as easily slip away from her grasp and wake up and realize that he had everything he wanted at home w/you.
Your xh will have to see her for the warts, etc. she has, but the relationship is too new for that right now. The day will come....
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
