Read through alot of your other threads. I know where you come from on this.. I am definitely undecided as to the course of action-right now- to take.
Confront and get it on the table-OR-wait and evaluate. i have the ability to monitor everything she does (she doesn't know).. If I confront she will know I have some way of gaining info, and she may change tactics. The OM seems to cut off contact. that's good. it gives her a chance to come of the A drug.
I see my IM on Monday and he sees her as well individually. So will make him aware of the sitch and get his input.
I have no problem with using my set (ex-USMC officer) I am just hearing Joann (my counselor-DB) saying if it won't pull her towards you don't say it. However, I also do get the "get everything on the table" argument as well.
Could monitoring her for a few days be the better approach to see if its really over without the pressure of confrontation involved be the right way?
Thoughts?
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
