Keylogger showed a screen shot of an email being drafted before sending + it records all typed messages. So it was confirmed both ways.
The OM obviously had a change of heart and has in fact made a choice to cut the realtionship off. No calls to each other for a few days since he must have told her. His Myspace account shows him IN a relationship with a gal (not my wife) and that changed 3 days ago. So he is sending her the message.
That coincides with my wife being absolutely distraught when I came home Wed night. For no apparent reason. Now it pieces together.
As far as the marriage back on track, the email also states that she intends to get a divorce regardless. BUT the whole aim of the email seemed to be intent on changing his mind.. So not sure on the divorce.
Anyway...just some clarification. My coach said yesterday i need to ask myself before saying anything to gauge if I thought it would pull her to me, neutral, or push her away. If it wasn't pulling her...don't say it.
So for now I will continue DBing and watch and wait. I know now that she is capable of alot of deceit which is so out of character for her. BUT, we all are capable of it in the right sitch.
today will be a tough one. I have alot scheduled out of the house so thats good.
Jeff
***Getting up every day and learning to breathe in a new me. For me and my children***
Me: 43 W: 38 SD-15 S(s): 12,9,7 Separated-2/14/2009 My sitch
