Hey LD - Good to see you are hanging in there. Hello Amy C, glad to see you are back from exile!

Anybody know what the first signs of an MLCer coming out of the fog looks like? ExW seems to have lost all her anger for me and now takes every opportunity to establish contact. May mean nothing at all but it surely is a change. It has been 12 months since the OM biz started ( I think. Might have been longer), about 3 years since the hormone situation really got going and close to 11 months since the ExW walked away from it all.

The ExW seems to have lost the arrogance & anger since losing control of me. She seems alittle sentimental and sad. Hangs on the phone wanting to say something but never quite gets it out. Sent me a very emotional text on her birthday.

Maybe 30 years together was harder to replace than she thought?

Last edited by thrillisgone; 01/24/09 09:02 AM.
Me- 47
W- 45
Married 22 years
Together 30 years
No Kids, 1 dog, 1 Cat
2005 - 2007 W in MLT
1/08 - Crisis hits
3/08 W drops Bomb and leaves in the middle of the night. Admits to PA
4/08 W files for divorce
8/08 Divorce final